So I've decided to go more in depth about something that is sort of a cornerstone of my social theories.
Being Socially Suitable means being good enough.
Good enough to talk to, good enough to date, good enough to socialize with without fear of friends being embarrassed.
In layman's terms, it means Dateable.
I chose the word suitable because it means presentable, acceptable, and dateable, all at once.
Being socially suitable is very important if you want to get anywhere with anyone.
To be socially suitable, you dont have to be megahot, or supersmart, or anything like that.
You just have to know yourself and act accordingly.
You have to be clean, for one, and smell good. Just use deodorant, dont worry about perfume or axe or cologne. Just smell... suitable.
If you dont look terribly good, for whatever reason, you have to make up for it with style, physical or otherwise, usually otherwise considering physical is the problem in the first place.
Have a good attitude, postive attitude towards people in general, but try to stay away from people who are not socially suitable. Dont be mean to them.
Keep in mind the whole reason for becoming socially suitable was so people wouldnt be embarrassed to socialize with you. If you socialize with an unsuitable person, you are stepping down a social tier.
(Which is another subject I will probably talk about later.)
So, just be clean and presentable. Hang out with other people who are clean and presentable, not only will your social status go up (even if you never talk to anyone), but your self esteem will rise as well.
Social Suitable. It's a thing.
-Newman
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